Over the years, sexting has evolved, just as we have. And new developments associated with new technologies have emerged. Like sexting. If you don't know what it is, it's a combination of the English words 'sex' and 'texting'. In other words, sending sexual messages with other people that can lead to remote masturbation... or not. If you want to know how to practice the best sexting , keep reading.

Sexting, prerequisites

First and foremost, a sexting agreement is essential . Sending messages or audiovisual material with sexual content without prior permission isn't sexting; it's harassment and is a reportable crime. Another important tip: sexting, which can contain compromising messages, photos, audios, or videos, is an activity you should always do with people you truly trust. Because the content of those messages will end up stored on a device and could be disseminated. It's another crime for the person who sends it, but that doesn't prevent the privacy of the person it's targeting from being violated. This would be our second and final red flag. Still, there are face-to-face messaging apps that don't allow the storage of this information. If you want to increase your security, use them.

Better, little by little

Once we're clear on what we're going to do, we recommend not going from 0 to 100 in the conversation , just as we probably wouldn't do it face-to-face. The goal of sexting is usually to get the person in the message exchange really sexually aroused. As things heat up, you have to let go of the fear of being graphic or specific. Share what you'd like to do to the other person (or people), and what you'd like them to do to you. Communication is key . Don't demand videos, photos, or audio just because you're willing to include them in the conversation; they can cloud the mood or even kill it altogether.

Surprise, surprise

Something that can be truly exciting is sending these types of messages as a surprise (with consent, especially if it's a long-term relationship). Of course, you have to make sure the other person isn't in a delicate moment of their day where they could be exposed. Oh, and one more very important thing. You have to be really careful when sending this message so you don't make a mistake and it doesn't end up on the phone of someone or a group you have nothing to do with. That's why we believe that mixing sexting and alcohol has great potential dangers . If you're drinking, it's best not to sext.

Become a photographer

When sending nudes, or photos of your naked body, experiment until you get what you're looking for . You don't have to be completely explicit; you can show certain areas, cover others with emojis, or go nude to suggest something. If you don't feel particularly comfortable with the photo or video, repeat until you like the result. Your imagination is the limit . And the same can be applied to texts. Write and don't send until, upon rereading, you're happy with the result. With these tips, you'll be ready for your first sexting session. If you're hoping it might end in a slip, we recommend masturbating with lubricant , which can open up a world of incredible sensations.