We are very touching. Not that we win the lottery (although hopefully), rather of touching bodies, of caressing, of squeezing, and also of letting ourselves be touched when we are not alone. And it's up to you, in the end you manage to fine-tune and find the best areas to arouse the pleasure of your sexuality and that of the other. So, open bar of caresses until every centimeter of the skin is covered and we can memorize each one of its folds. We have endless erogenous zones to which we often do not pay the attention we should to enjoy our slips more. Also, there are differences between the areas that excite men and women, so let's review them (or perhaps discover some that you didn't even know about).

To begin with, we are going to talk about the largest erogenous zone for them and for him; the skin. A good massage, a caress in the exact place and our sensations skyrocket. A sensual and gentle massage is often associated as a prelude to sex with good reason. If the massage is given by the right person and done tactfully, lust is almost inevitable. Who can resist a flurry of caresses?

Get to know each other to enjoy pleasure and sexuality

Another important aspect is knowing our own body, experimenting and discovering which areas excite us the most and which ones not so much. Because there are universal truths, but in the end each person is different and has different preferences. That is why it is important, when it comes to relationships, to speak honestly and tell the other person what you like, what you don't, what you would like to feel... Let's not ask the other to guess, if we make him a manual of instructions, it will be easier for you and we will have more fun!

We usually associate erogenous zones with those where there are more nerve endings, which means that there is also more sensitivity. And we usually divide them between the primary ones, which are the genitals, and the secondary ones, which would be in the rest of the body.

For women, the clitoris is the main erogenous zone. In fact, its only function at a physiological level is to give sexual pleasure, thanks to the infinity of nerve endings that it concentrates. If it is there for that, it will have to be used! The other primary area is the vulva. Among the secondary ones, the lips, the breasts, the neck, the nape of the neck, the ears (the lobes, specifically) and the inner thighs stand out. There are those who are excited by caresses in other areas, such as the belly, back or side.

In the end, pleasure and sexuality cannot be framed in a single recipe that makes us follow an order of erogenous zones determined to be stimulated. You have to flow, adapt to the moment, enjoy improvisation and, above all, practice. Practice makes perfect, also in this case.