The fetishism It was made fashionable by the 50 Shades of Gray phenomenon, and its popularity has skyrocketed ever since. But there are those who feel guilty for the fact that they like this type of practice, which they consider to be out of the "normal". Although we believe precisely the opposite.

Our evolution has made us find new ways to have sex, so everything is natural as life itself as long as the people involved feel comfortable doing it. There are as many possibilities as there are shades of color. There are those who have a foot fetish, dressing in leather, costumes or so many other themes. And they are all normal. Or none of them are, because the normality at the time of slips is marked by each one.

Fetishism, beyond sex

It's not like fetishism has to be related to sex alone, either. There are those who are fetishists and do not get to have relationships, although the fetish is usually associated with excitement. The sexual fantasies they can be part of a perfectly healthy sex life for individuals or couples. It's all about communicating and telling what you like, and getting the other person (if any) to agree to participate in your erotic fantasy.

Unfortunately, conservative morality has historically associated fetishism with sexual depravity, helping to criminalize this type of practice. Something that is celebrated with pride throughout the world and that continues to suffer discrimination in many places, such as homosexuality, suffered the same persecution, although it is now mostly accepted in the most advanced cultures. Under the sheets, everyone can express themselves and get excited as they please, and others have no right to judge as long as it does not harm another person or this fetish causes distress or physical harm.

What is a fetish?

The first thing we associate with fetishism is leather, whips, costumes. But you don't have to limit yourself a fetish is the exploration of our sexuality, expanding its limits. It really is the imagination that can limit the possibilities of fetishism, and there are as many potential fetishes as there are people in the world.